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 CHRISTMAS SPIRIT
 

My daughter will be home for Christmas! I'm so happy! Although we talk or email one another every week, it's just not the same as being together.



I've decided that this Christmas I will give her one of the gifts I have been holding onto to give her since she was a little girl. Now, I realize that most couples after they divorce give up any of the expensive gifts and romantic things they gave to one another after they divorced. Why hold onto something that no longer pertains? And I'm the first to agree with that and I did give up most everything my ex gave to me, except for two pieces of jewelry. A string of pearls and a ruby heart necklace. Neither are worth thousands of dollars, but each symbolizes something to me. I had considered returning them to my ex shortly after we divorced, but after thinking about it for awhile, I decided against it. They were given to me at momentous occasions in my life. The ruby was a gift when I became pregnant with my daughter and the pearls were a gift after her first birthday. Both occasions were filled with love and joy, that centered around her. I decided they should belong to her when she was old enough to understand the sentimental value that they symbolized for me. I will give the ruby to her on Christmas Eve and along with it, this poem that I wrote especially for her.

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Love is elusive.
It will not allow itself
to be captured or possessed.
It prefers kindness and respect
and a generosity of souls.
Sometimes it will linger, in one place,
for an eternity,
Sometimes days,
And sometimes, for just a breath.
But, during its stay,
beautiful things can happen.
You, my daughter, is what happened
when love rested its wings
for a moment.

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And the pearls? I believe they should, someday, lay gently against her collarbone as she pulls her wedding dress over her head.

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 MAINE TRAVELERS ADVISORY WARNS THAT WINTER IS COMING! (just in case you didn't know).
 

The leaves have long since fallen from the trees and been raked up, bagged and for some, banked around the house. The trees are completely bare except for the few apples that cling determinedly to their branches. And the hard ground no longer sprouts green grass or colorful flowers. Winter has definitely made its presence known.

We wait anxiously for that first Nor-Easter to strike us helpless in our homes and as we wait, we prepare ourselves for the oncoming onslaught of the white stuff. This time-consuming preparation is an absolute necessity in our homes and our vehicles. For our homes, we stockpile wood, ready the furnace, wrap our older homes in plastic or pile bales of hay around the foundation. All in the name of keeping Old Man winter’s icy breath from creeping into our homes.

For our vehicles, we load the trunk with enough essentials to last a week if we’re stranded. Chains, ice-melt, shovel, a flashlight, with at least two packs of batteries. One or two thick wool blankets, another set of clothing. Boots, hats, mittens and maybe even some food rations to get us through. So much stuff we may have to remove the spare tire to get it all in. Never mind that at least three plow trucks will likely cruise by us as we sit helpless on the side of the road. Or that 9.5 % of all other drivers, that pass by us, will have a cell phone attached to their ear. And hopefully they will call 911 for us (if in fact we are the lone 5 % who do not own a cell phone...yes that would be me). But as the saying goes, better to have all that stuff than not, especially when we need it.

Travel advice for the brave soul that dares to venture out in a Nor’easter seems like a pertinent article to write this time of year. With this article I’d like to share some of my own advice for being prepared. Actually, these are the words of experience, from someone who’s found herself on the wrong side of a snowbank, one too many times.

The first and foremost piece of advice I can give; STAY HOME ! Just call in sick to work, grab some of that stockpiled wood, light a roaring fire and just cozy on in for the day. And when the power goes out, which it inevitably will, light the candles or oil lanterns and grab that bestseller you’ve been wanting to read.

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But, if you absolutely MUST go out, here are ten of my own personal must-haves. And remember these are tips from an ‘experienced’ winter driver.

1) A brand-new pair of wiper blades. So you can actually see where you’re going through that twirling, twisting snow.

2) Plan ahead and leave for work an hour or an hour and half early, maybe even two. Because driving at speeds of only 20 - 25 takes a loooong time to get there.

3) Charge your cell phone (if you have one).

4) Have a list of telephone numbers for all local tow trucks. If you don’t already have it, get AAA. It’s the thing to definitely have, especially this time of year.

5) Stay inside your car. Bundle up with those extra blankets, hats, mittens and slip on those warm boots.

6) Be like an outdoorsman/woman, buy some Hot Hands or Hot Feet (body generated warming packets that slip inside your mittens and socks).

7) De-Icer and Lock De-Icer, for the windshields and doors. It beats having to chip away at a sheet of sheer ice, on your windshield or door handles, after a day of freezing rain.

8) When cold weather starts, pour a container of Iso-Heat in the gas tank before filling up. This will keep your gas line from freezing up.

9) Jumper cables (a no-brainer).

10) And lastly...just stay home.



I'm dreaming of a White Christmas!
Happy Holidays!

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 COUNTRY MUSIC MUSINGS
 


I posted this once, a long time ago, but I think it might be worth reposting.

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Regrets- there is no time in this life for regrets...dwelling on what we could've done to change the past, will not change it, what is done is done.

-Love- we will love many, many times in this life...each will be unique and special in its own way and exactly the kind of love we needed at that point in our lives, so cherish each love and have no REGRETS.

-Marriage- the lucky ones will last forever...

-Religion- everyone has their own personal beliefs and if it's right for them, so be it...even if it's a fat little guy with his chubby little legs crossed over.

-Sexy, redneck women-hey, what can I say...we're everywhere.

-Dogs- cats are much easier to care for...but not as loyal.

-Pick-up trucks - What? There's other types of vehicles? Nuttin' beats a pick-up truck, 'cept a Harley.

-Kids and family- what life is about.

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